How to Die Well
The phrase “happy death” might sound strange to modern ears, but in the theology and spiritual practice of John Wesley and the early Methodists, it captured a deeply Christian vision: to die in the peace, assurance, and joy of salvation. This wasn’t wishful thinking. It was the outcome of a life transformed by grace. For Wesley, the way a Christian died bore witness to the truth of the Gospel as much as the way they lived. A “happy death” wasn’t defined by the absence of pain or suffering, but by the presence of Christ and the settled assurance of belonging to him.
In a culture obsessed with prolonging life at any cost and avoiding all talk of death, this teaching stands out as both countercultural and deeply comforting. It reminds us that Christians can face death with courage and even joy, not because of anything in ourselves, but because of the One who has conquered death and promised to be with us in the valley of its shadow (Psalm 23:4).
Justifying Grace and Assurance
At the heart of the Wesleyan view of a “happy death” is the doctrine of justification by faith. To die well, we must first be made right with God. Justification brings peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ (Romans 5:1). It’s not a peace we earn, but a gift received by faith alone. Without this foundation, there can be no true peace in life or in death. Wesley was clear: no one should presume to die with joy who hasn’t first come to Christ in repentance and faith.
But Wesley went further. He insisted that the Christian can - and should - have the inward assurance of salvation. This assurance isn’t presumption; it’s the Spirit’s witness with our spirit that we are children of God (Romans 8:16). This is what allowed the early Methodists, even the very young or the very poor, to face death with calm confidence and even triumph. Death wasn’t the end - it was the beginning of glory.
Holiness and Readiness
Wesley’s emphasis on sanctification adds another layer to this theology of dying. A “happy death” isn’t just about getting saved at the last minute - it’s the fruit of a sanctified life. Sanctification, the Spirit’s work of making us holy, prepares us to see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14). The holy life is the prepared life, and the prepared life can die well. Wesley often noted that those who walked closely with God in life seemed to die not just peacefully but joyfully, with songs, prayers, and testimonies on their lips.
This is why Wesleyan theology stresses the importance of growth in grace. If we want to die in peace, we must live in obedience. Those who are daily walking in the light of Christ, confessing sin, loving their neighbors, and seeking God’s will are those who won’t be caught unready when death comes. A well-lived life is the best preparation for a well-faced death.
The Community of Faith and the Witness of Death
Early Methodist practice surrounded the dying with prayer, hymns, and the presence of fellow believers. Death wasn’t a lonely or hidden event - it was communal, a moment of witness. Friends and family gathered, not just to say goodbye, but to see the grace of God at work in the final moments of a believer’s life. These accounts of “happy deaths” were published in Methodist magazines and journals, not to glorify the individual, but to point to the faithfulness of Christ.
This communal witness continues to be vital today. The Church bears the responsibility to surround the sick and dying with love and presence. No one should die alone or without the encouragement of their spiritual family. And just as in Wesley’s day, the death of a faithful Christian - especially when marked by peace and praise -- remains one of the most powerful testimonies to the truth of the Gospel. Even in death, we proclaim Christ.
Christ’s Victory Over Death
Scripture is clear: death is not the end. Because Jesus died and rose again, death has lost its sting (1 Corinthians 15:54–57). The Christian doesn’t pass into nothingness but into the presence of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:8). This is the anchor of the Christian’s hope and the bedrock of the “happy death.” The early Methodists didn’t view heaven as a vague or sentimental idea - they expected to be with Christ, and that gave them deep joy even in their final hours.
This is why Paul could say, “For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21). Death is gain - not because we love the idea of dying, but because we long to be with Jesus. This longing isn’t morbid; it’s holy. It’s what Paul expressed in 2 Timothy 4:6-8 when he spoke of being poured out like a drink offering, ready to depart and receive the crown of righteousness. He had fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the faith. That’s the kind of ending the Wesleyan tradition urges us to pursue.
Living Today in Light of That Day
So how should we live now, knowing what we know about death? First, we must examine ourselves. Do we have peace with God through Christ? Do we walk in holiness? Do we live in such a way that, if today were our last, we could meet the Lord with confidence? Wesley urged continual self-examination - not to drive us to despair, but to keep us close to Christ. His own journals and sermons show a pastor deeply concerned that people not delay repentance or drift into complacency.
Second, we must walk in assurance. God doesn’t intend for his children to live in constant fear of judgment. Through the Holy Spirit, he assures us that we are his. That assurance is not pride - it’s peace. It leads to worship, gratitude, and faithful living. And it gives us strength when we come to die.
Dying with the Gospel on Our Lips
Finally, we must be ready to make our death a moment of Gospel witness. This doesn’t mean we stage-manage our dying moments. It means we so trust Christ, and so live in the power of his Spirit, that even our passing speaks of his grace. This is what the world needs to see: Christians who are unafraid, who pass through death not as victims but as those carried by the hand of the Lord.
We are people of the resurrection. Therefore, we’re people who can die well. That is the gift of the Gospel, and it’s the goal of a life lived in grace. The Wesleyan vision of the “happy death” isn’t about dying in comfort - it’s about dying in Christ. And for the believer, there’s no happier way to die.
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