The Foundation of Discipline
Discipline for Godly Manhood: Part 1
Dear Brothers,
Thank you for taking the time to reflect with me today as we begin a new series on the role of discipline in a godly man’s life. Often, in our world, we observe that ease, comfort, and instant gratification are glorified, so much so, that the concept of discipline feels almost foreign. Yet Scripture paints a very different picture of manhood - one rooted in self-control, perseverance, and spiritual strength.
Proverbs 25:28 warns, “A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.” This is a striking image - an undisciplined man is vulnerable, easily swayed, and lacking the fortifications needed to stand strong. If we desire to be men of faith, integrity, and wisdom, we must build lives of discipline.
In this series, we’ll explore how to cultivate discipline in various areas of life - spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally. I also think it’s important to add at the beginning, true discipline is not about legalism or rigid self-reliance; it’s about training ourselves to live in obedience to Christ, rejecting passivity, and stepping into the strength God has given us.
A Biblical Mandate, Not an Option
Discipline isn’t merely a helpful suggestion for Christian men – it’s the way of wisdom and faithfulness. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 9:25-27:
Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.
Here, Paul likens the Christian life to that of an athlete - requiring rigorous training, endurance, and purpose. Just as an athlete disciplines his body for a prize, so must we discipline our minds, hearts, and habits for the greater prize of godliness.
Richard Baxter, the Puritan pastor, once wrote, “A Christian’s work is never done while he is on this side of heaven.” True manhood isn’t about drifting through life but about the active, intentional pursuit of holiness.
What Holds Men Back?
Many men struggle with discipline, not because they lack the desire, but because they’re weighed down by obstacles. Here are three common barriers:
Passivity and Comfort - Our modern world is built around convenience. Technology, entertainment, and endless distractions make it easy for men to choose comfort over commitment. But growth never happens in ease - it happens through challenge and effort.
Lack of Clear Purpose - Some men drift because they don’t know why discipline matters. Without a clear goal - whether in faith, family, or personal growth – there’s little motivation to press forward. But as Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.”
The Fear of Failure - Other men avoid discipline because they fear they’ll never measure up. But godly discipline isn’t about perfection – it’s about persistence. Proverbs 24:16 reminds us, “The righteous falls seven times and rises again.” A disciplined man learns to rise after every failure.
Can you relate to any (or all) of these? I know I’ve experienced some of these during various seasons of my life. (And sometimes they reemerge when I’m not remaining vigilant and intentional.)
Training, Not Just Trying
John Ortberg has said that many people think discipline means simply trying harder - but true discipline is about training wisely. Paul tells Timothy, “Train yourself for godliness” (1 Timothy 4:7). Training means:
Daily habits over occasional efforts.
Accountability over isolated willpower.
Progress over perfection.
J.I. Packer wisely said, “A habit of discipline is the mark of a mature Christian.” The goal isn’t merely to be disciplined for the sake of discipline but to form habits that glorify God, strengthen our character, and serve others.
Brothers, discipline isn’t about striving in your own strength – it’s about submitting to the Lord and allowing him to shape you into the man he’s called you to be. As we embark on this series, let’s commit together to reject passivity, embrace responsibility, and grow in godliness.
Questions for Personal Reflection
What areas of my life lack discipline? Where am I too passive?
How does my understanding of discipline align with God’s Word?
What daily habits am I cultivating - are they leading me toward growth or stagnation?
Who do I have in my life to hold me accountable in areas where I need more discipline?
What’s one area where I can start training in discipline this week?
Action Steps to Begin Cultivating Discipline
Identify one small, daily habit to change. Whether it’s waking up earlier for prayer, eliminating an unhealthy distraction, or committing to Scripture reading, start with one simple step.
Find an accountability partner. Discipline thrives in community. Find a brother in Christ who can challenge and encourage you as you grow in self-control.
Write down your “why.” Knowing why discipline matters will help you stay consistent. Pray over what God is calling you to change, ask for his strength, and commit your efforts to him.
Thank you for joining me today. My hope is that you were encouraged and challenged. If this message resonated with you, I invite you to share it with another brother in Christ. And remember, more devotionals and resources are available - click here to explore Walking Points.
Let’s press on together.
Your brother in Christ,
Pastor Dale